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Post by Genecanuck on Mar 29, 2015 7:04:21 GMT -5
Happy Sunday everyone, It is a sunny Sunday in Eastern Ontario and I plan to stay inside and get some homework done. Sending a shout out to my friend Bertram, Nate, and our new friend Elaine.... (((welcome Elaine))))I am also in the process of reading Allen Carr's The Only Way to Stop Smoking. With my recent relapses, I have to seriously examine my state of mind and thinking about smoking. Obviously, I smoked because I still think there is some kind of benefit I will get in a crisis. THAT IS A LIE! But I have to undue the instinctual thinking that leads me down that path. Pledging not to smoke today and offering my hand in support of all others who are not smoking or who have a desire to quit.Gene, A non smoker “Wouldn’t that be an incredibly stupid thing to do? To say ‘I never want to smoke again’, then spend the rest of your life saying ‘I’d love a cigarette.’ That’s what smokers who use the Willpower Method do. No wonder they feel so miserable. They spend the rest of their lives desperately moping for something that they desperately hope they will never have.” ― Allen Carr, Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
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Post by timethrift on Mar 29, 2015 9:50:07 GMT -5
Good morning Gene..........
You should know that with time..........every desire to smoke will evaprorate......they will be gone. Not only will they be gone, but they will be replaced with a renewed appreciation of life/health/well being. Having been smober for some time now, I can readily attest to the freedom that replaces the never ending desire to smoke. I have absolutely no desire or need to smoke ever again. My freedom is absolute. Absolute, except for the lingering damage I have done to my lungs by smoking in the first place. I flew too close to the fire.......and got burned...but I survived! I am thankfull to all my friends who helped me Quit......I'm not sure I could have done it without them.
Gene you need to deal with every desire to smoke in the same way.........allow that desire (crave) into your mind body and soul. Never ever fight it. Feel them, live them, know them, from start to finish. Allow Fear to summon Courage....Courage can conqour any reality in life.
Joining today's pledge........I offer a Hand of Hope and Support to ...........Everyone.
Bertram/Content non smoker.
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